Parents hit when they're angry Submitted by Anonymous A on December 26, - 6: The latest research, published in The Journal of Pediatrics , concludes that children who have been spanked have an increased risk of becoming perpetrators of domestic violence in adulthood. Some articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. I didn't feel "loved" or cared for by my parents when they spanked me. It is NOT OK to rub a child's bottom after hitting him on his bottom, because the child will then associate receiving a "reward' of pleasure on his bottom with receiving a painful blows on his bottom, and that its OK for any adult to touch him in that way. I'm not saying that I tried everything, I just don't know everything, but in the end, he became wonderful boy. But it can also be hard.
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What really surprised me was that after we finished, he would with tears in his eyes throw his arms around me and hug me. Huffington Post provides a full article displaying 8 Expert alternatives to spanking. You, my friend, are just the opposite. As for not being a family member, considering the length of my relationship with Sharon and Tim, I was in essence part of the family. Ignoring other peoples thoughts is akin to burying our head in the sand. Except for one son, the rest of the family couldn't hold a job either. Fear based thinking is not conducive towards practicing morality.
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The latest research, published in The Journal of Pediatrics , concludes that children who have been spanked have an increased risk of becoming perpetrators of domestic violence in adulthood. I didn't feel "loved" or cared for by my parents when they spanked me. Parents who as children were disciplined with beatings, even severe, may honestly believe that is how you effectively discipline your children. This is used to detect comment spam. Yes - I will try and spank less Yes - I will try and stop spanking It confirmed my thoughts - I have never spanked and never will No - I will continue spanking See results. Your other childhood experiences you mention are significant as well RE giving you a higher ACE score.
At first it was extremely painful, but over time I got used to it and it didn't hurt not one bit. During adolescence, failed grades, substance abuse, delinquency, sexual risk-taking and pregnancy aren't uncommon. I have never seen a father who regularly spanks his children end up with custody. Department of Health and Human Services. Of course, not every child of spanking has a positive association to that experience. And I only got spanked on my butt and penis, nowhere else.